Like father, like family: positive Parenting in Burundi

In Burundi, the Parenting Challenge is an important intervention for reducing violence and increasing the proper care of children. It is combined with PIP, an innovative approach for farmers, where the whole household is involved in improving their farm and thus in improving their own nutrition and income. This holistic approach addresses the root causes of family problems and promotes sustainable change.

The parenting challenge is a group based programme which supports parents or caregivers in improving their family dynamics. It provides a safe, interactive environment where parents explore their roles, responsibilities and the essentials of raising children well, share experiences and build mutual understanding and respect.

From alcohol and abuse to a successful farm and harmony
One of the fathers who was part of the Parenting Challenge in Ruyigi shared that he was always drunk, not able to take care of the needs of his wife and children and, therefore, dodged going home and went drinking with his friends instead. This resulted in him coming home late, shouting at his wife and children, and even beating them. On top of that, his farm was not doing well, since all the money was spent on alcohol.

When he joined the Parenting Challenge group, he realized he had to change. The father stopped drinking and stopped beating his wife and children. Instead, he is now supporting them in school. He also followed the PIP training, and together with his wife and children he made a plan for their farm. Their farm is now very successful, with several crops, fruits and animals. The father even managed to buy more land. And most importantly, there’s harmony in the family.